Friends are one of the greatest things in the world and they come with ups and downs. All friendships are emotional roller coasters and I think you can agree with me on that. “Friends are like diamonds, precious and rare. Fake friends are like leaves found everywhere.” This is so true, you should always value every true friend you have and never underestimate them.
Sadly, there are also fake friends out there. This may be because you wear your heart on your sleeve (you’re not careful with your heart and you’re easily taken advantaged of). Some people may take advantage of people who are like this and they get badly hurt and people like that need to realise to be more careful because not everyone is trustworthy, so whatever you do be careful. You may tell your “best friend” a secret and then suddenly everyone knows about it at school, it’s probably your “friend” so watch out for those type of people. They can easily take advantage of you and they can wrap you around their little finger and you won’t even realise it. If you have a friend like this you need to be able to stand up to them and have the guts to speak and say what you think about them. This may result in an argument or you losing a “friend” but its only for the best and as long as you feel it was the right thing to do, then go for what you think is best. You can’t be mislead and not enjoy having friends because this person can’t keep you captive and if you don’t do anything about it, you’ll regret it and think to yourself, “Why didn’t I stand you for myself and tell them how I really felt about our friendship”. Don’t live your life in regret, live the moment and just go for it!
There are also a great group of friends and these people create so many unforgettable moment and happy memories with you. You might have met your friend at a young age or recently but you can tell who will be your friend for a long time or your whole life, a friendship that has lasted 7 years is more likely to last a lifetime, an interesting fact. I think this is true because you almost feel that you and your friend are related, you know everything about each other and I’m very glad to say one of my friendships has lasted for 7 years and I hope it’ll last forever with all my friends. International Friendship Day is celebrated on July 30, so spend that day with your friends and do something special as its celebrated in the summer, go down to the beach, have a water fight or just something fun.
You can also have friends of both genders which is great and it can give you a lot of knowledge about each gender. Sometimes you can develop feelings for your guy or girl friend and you just can’t help it, the other person might feel the same way about you or not, but if they don’t, don’t ruin your friendship and try to control your feelings and just value very moment you have with them. If you’re lucky enough they might try to hint that they like you and if you’re certain of it ask them out to the cinema or something and they might understand where you’re coming from and you never know what you might get out of it. As I said before don’t live in regret and just do what you feel is right for you at the situation.
Do you ever talk about your future with your friends? Like going to on holiday, going to university together, moving in, going clubbing, going to each others weddings, meeting each others children etc. Things like that just make you want to grow up faster, imagine how fun it would be! Thinking about your future with your friends is so interesting because you never know what will happen to you. Just make sure that your all still friends.
I hope you like this blog, please let me know in the comments what else you’d like me to write about. Thanks for reading xoxo